Happy Holidays to You

Nine days until Christmas is here, but not everyone may be filled with holiday cheer. We've all seen the memes and posts about Christmas being in our thoughts, prayers, and dreams. Exchanging gifts is a huge part of celebrating the holiday and we all have our wants and desires too. There are some people who have lost loved ones around this time of year. There are others trying to hustle and come up with some way to keep paying their bills and also make some version of Christmas happen this year. Some people's wish lists have clothes, shoes, gifts cards, etc on them. How many do you think have household or cleaning products, groceries, and hygiene products on their list? I know a few and there's nothing wrong with that at all. It takes a village even after the child has reached adulthood in today's day and time. Someone once said if you want something ask, and things like that aren't just wanted they're needed.

Regardless of how Christmas may look or feel this year don't allow it to bring you down. Everything you've done emotionally, mentally, and physically is depending on you to keep going. Set your boundaries, know your boundaries, and put yourself first this year. Be real and be upfront with yourself and others about how YOU want to spend your holiday. Learn to say no, learn to speak up for yourself, address what you need and adios to what you don't. The holiday season is about more than just gifts, traditions, and Christmas lights. It's not even about the good stuff like spending time with family and friends, parties, or eggnog. No, this year it's about you loving and celebrating yourself. So cheers to you and happy holidays to you and yours from yours truly.

K.E. XoXo